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A #piggybank for everything

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NOT one single debt since years Something I really hate is  a debt . I always was good in saving, never wasted any money. Yes it was true I could do way more with 10 cents as most people with 1 dollar and... I still can. As long as I make a sport out of spending as less as possible a low income is not a burden. My children even help, we encourage eachother and we all.are rewarded for it with some extra. I was able to pay of a debt, live with 3 children and pets, buy something extra and... save. The debt I had was not mine but my ex husband his and were debts of my (so called) friends, whom I just tried to help. Those debts were sky high. I had to pay for it, was punished for being helpful for the next 35 years of my life. I decided  not  to do so and although I did pay a part of it, I did not do so for so many years. Already since years I have no debts. I only buy if I do have the money, saved for it first plus I alway pay cash! I have reorganised my expens...

Exit

Ex = exit ... something that is hard to understand for my ex. For some reason he still has hope we will be together again. People who are desperate are full of hope. Even if you tell them they make you feel sick, you laugh at them at their face or scold at them, they see this as a kind of attention. So the second best thing to do is to ignore him. The best thing to do is to have a new boy friend. I don't have a boy friend since there is nobody who can interest me that much that I want to spend my time with or put energy in him. My ex is a too much a good example of a bad relationship and how men lie and cheat and what a cowards they are. I also don't have friends anymore. Although I am the best friend you can have, always there for you, giving away everything including money, to help out, my friends did stink. They were great in abusing me and never home if I needed a helping hand. So also my friends are exit. Although my ex tries to get close to me, my ex-friends are hiding f...